Category Archives: Family
Abi’s Picks: Self-Portrait at the Ambassador’s Tea Party
Abi’s Picks: Making Breakfast
Nana and Papa
We’re all really enjoying having Rachel’s parents – “Nana and Papa” – here to visit for 6 weeks over the holidays. Â The smallest member of our family has taken to holding their hands whenever possible: praying for meals, walking between Sunday school and main service at church, and even when being pushed in the stroller. Â It’s adorable, and I don’t think Nana and Papa mind at all!
It’s Raining!
First Day of School
Today is Matt’s first day of school… in a long time. Â He kindly submitted to having his picture taken to commemorate this event.
Guest Blog Post: Lorraine Floreen
Matt’s parents, Eric and Lorraine Floreen, are here visiting us for 2 1/2 weeks. Rachel’s busy keeping a house full of 12 going, so we jumped at the opportunity to have Lorraine guest blog for us!
(Lorraine Floreen) We’ve been here for two weeks now. Matt and Rachel have done a great job at making a peaceful and homey atmosphere even with power outages. And the meals we’ve had, well let me just say that on several occasions Eric has asked Rachel to send me the recipe.
Having lived in Jamaica, there is much that seems familiar, everything from driving on the other side of the road, to being in the minority, to bartering. We’ve gotten to experience a lot, starting with one Sunday worshiping at IBF (tea before service was a treat!), followed by a trip to Zomba plateau. We were surprised at all the villages but even more so the number of people walking along the ‘highway.’ Matt did a great job of making us feel comfortable even driving up the twisty road to the 6,000 foot plateau and up another 2,000+ feet to where we were staying. We arrived to no power, but a fire and candles and oil lights awaiting us. The very first morning Abigail and I were up while the rest of the family slept, and when we went into the backyard, a baboon passed about 6 feet from us. It was the first of many baboons we saw while there.
Matt also took us to a village in Mozambique with the team from The Master’s College. It was 15 km off the highway, but it took about 3 hours for us to drive that distance, mostly because we only had one 4 wheel drive vehicle, and clearance was a problem for the other vehicle. We took tents that we slept in, and were prepared for having no running water or electricity, but it was even more basic that we expected. Not a chair or bench to sit on, except for the mud covered brick ‘benches’ in the church. Due to a diesel shortage, we took one less vehicle, so Rachel and Abigail stayed behind. Because Rachel wasn’t there, I, as Matt’s mom, was presented with a large basket of maize flour and a live chicken as a welcoming gift. These people love the Lord Jesus and shared the little they had with us – they made maize meal for us twice a day, and even killed a goat for us to eat.
Watching Matt and Rachel minister here in Malawi, and playing with Abigail, has been a blessing far beyond what we had expected.
On Our Own
Abigail and I are having a little one-on-one time holding down the fort here in Malawi. Â We were supposed to go to Mozambique with Matt, his parents, and the TMC team, but 1) there’s a fuel shortage so our caravan was down to 2 vehicles and with fewer seats someone had to stay behind, and 2) I was sick so we were the best candidates to be left behind. Â I’m feeling better now, and Abi and I are enjoying the girl time. Â The travelers get home tomorrow – can’t wait to hear how it all went!
How to Take a Baby on Safari
We had a great little family vacation last month! Â Ever wonder how to go on safari with a 6 month old? Â Here’s how we did it…
We went. Â Sometimes with a baby it’s tempting to just stay home and keep a routine. Â But we just went. Â Babies are amazingly flexible. Â We gave her naps and food at all the right times, but we WENT.
Make sure the baby is good around cameras. Â In our case, no problem. Â She’s fine around cameras. Â Mom, however, is not so good at juggling baby and camera… It’s got to be one or the other, so mom let dad take all the really good pictures.
Set your expectations. Â We planned to bring Abigail on as many things as we could, but knew that we’d have to go a bit slower, stop and enjoy things with her, and maybe cut a few things short. Â We also knew that at times there would be things that one of us could do while the other stayed back with her. Â Thinking through those things ahead of time made every experience more enjoyable.
Teach your baby to sleep on rough roads. Â We had about 11 hours of rough roads on this trip, and Abigail just slept right through it. Â She actually woke up if we stopped or the road was suddenly smooth!
Go places that you know YOU will like. Â Do you remember when your parents took you to Disneyland when you were 2? Â Of course you don’t. Â The point: don’t plan your vacation around your baby. Â Plan your vacation, then figure out how to do it with a baby. Â We went to Ntchisi National (Rain) Forest, Lake Malawi, and Nyika National Park. Â None of these places had a playground or even a toy box, but Abigail couldn’t have cared less. Â She smiled and played with her 5 toys, and we loved all the beauty and variety we were able to enjoy.
Have enough diesel so you don’t get stuck on the side of the road. Â This is good advice even if you’re not taking a baby on safari. Â We didn’t get stuck on the side of the road, but we did use every bit of diesel we had!
Even the jerry cans we had stocked up on! Â When we got to the furthest northern point of our travels, we drove in to the lodge with the fuel light on, 20 litres of diesel remaining in the jerry can, and the knowledge that we had a 5 hour drive before we would reach the next gas station. Â But we made it!
Get to know the locals. Â In our case, that meant the wildlife. Â We walked up to a herd of zebras…
…and let Abigail sing songs to the bushbucks off our room’s little balcony.
Be the only family booked at the lodge. Â This one recommendation, though entirely out of our control, might get the most “Amen!”s in our home. Â The lodge at Nyika National Park was running a “green season” special because it’s the tourist off-season and it’s rainy which makes it difficult to get around. Â So we knew we’d gotten a good package deal, but we didn’t know until we arrived that we were the ONLY people at the lodge. Â They treated us like royalty, washing our laundry, babysitting Abigail during dinner, and taking a chatterbox 6 month old on safari.
We didn’t mind if she was shrieking in delight at the elands, but a nice older bird-watching couple might not have appreciated her joy the way we did. Â Thankfully we didn’t have to figure that out, and we went gleefully shrieking at the animals all over the park, from the sunrise safari to the nighttime safari.
Enjoy it and go home refreshed. Â We’re busy these days, as we’re starting to describe in our We Love What We Do series, and we’re about to get busier with the summer and short-term teams. Â We needed to get away, just for a bit, but on the last day of vacation we realized that we were ready to go home, to do more of what we love. Â The vacation had fulfilled its purpose, and we had learned how to take a baby on safari.
Immunizations
A couple weeks ago, we took Abigail in to the clinic for her 4 month check-up and vaccinations. Â We’re following the CDC’s recommendations for the American vaccination schedule. Â Kind of. Â The rotovirus and pneumacoccal vaccinations aren’t available here in Malawi, so we’ll catch up later in the States. Â The only other difference in her vaccination schedule is that she gets the oral polio vaccination rather than the injectable.
But she does get a great giraffe band-aid!
She also gets her own health passport, which is a copy of her medical records that we take with us whenever we go to a clinic or see any doctor. Â With a significant number of medical staff coming to Malawi for short-term stints (2 weeks to 2 years) there’s not a lot of consistency or order to the medical world here, so it makes sense that you carry your own medical records.
All in all, Abigail is doing great, and we thank the Lord for a healthy, very happy little girl. Â Look at that face though! Â We’re not sure where she got her mischievous, adventurous personality…