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We Love What We Do – Part 2
(Rachel) Previously, I shared a bit about our ladies’ Bible study in the book of Ezra. Another major women’s event at our church is a Biblical counseling series I’ve been teaching on Thursday evenings. We just finished a series on the philosophy and methodology of Biblical counseling, wrapping it up by looking at 2 specific topics, Marriage Problems and Eating Issues – Anorexia, Bulimia, and Over-Eating.  We did this series a couple times last year too, and looked at the topics Worry, Fear, and Anxiety, and Abuse.
My goal with this series is not that the ladies will be able to go out and set up shop as counselors, but rather that they would be better equipped to care for one another right where they are.  As women, we talk with one another about a lot of things, and we do counsel one another, for good or bad! My hope is that these series would help the ladies to turn to Scripture as all-sufficient for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3), and that the conversations we have with one another would be edifying, encouraging, and wise. This is the third time I’ve done this counseling series, so the base of women who understand these concepts is growing! Pray for these ladies who are encountering new truths about themselves and God’s Word, that they would apply what they’ve learned in their relationships with others. Pray for us as we make plans for the next series – at least 6 more ladies are interested!  And pray for me also as I prepare two new topics, that God would make my study of these topics profitable in my own life, and that He would grant me the ability to communicate with the ladies clearly and accurately.
A Bucket of Water
How to Take a Baby on Safari
We had a great little family vacation last month! Â Ever wonder how to go on safari with a 6 month old? Â Here’s how we did it…
We went. Â Sometimes with a baby it’s tempting to just stay home and keep a routine. Â But we just went. Â Babies are amazingly flexible. Â We gave her naps and food at all the right times, but we WENT.
Make sure the baby is good around cameras. Â In our case, no problem. Â She’s fine around cameras. Â Mom, however, is not so good at juggling baby and camera… It’s got to be one or the other, so mom let dad take all the really good pictures.
Set your expectations. Â We planned to bring Abigail on as many things as we could, but knew that we’d have to go a bit slower, stop and enjoy things with her, and maybe cut a few things short. Â We also knew that at times there would be things that one of us could do while the other stayed back with her. Â Thinking through those things ahead of time made every experience more enjoyable.
Teach your baby to sleep on rough roads. Â We had about 11 hours of rough roads on this trip, and Abigail just slept right through it. Â She actually woke up if we stopped or the road was suddenly smooth!
Go places that you know YOU will like. Â Do you remember when your parents took you to Disneyland when you were 2? Â Of course you don’t. Â The point: don’t plan your vacation around your baby. Â Plan your vacation, then figure out how to do it with a baby. Â We went to Ntchisi National (Rain) Forest, Lake Malawi, and Nyika National Park. Â None of these places had a playground or even a toy box, but Abigail couldn’t have cared less. Â She smiled and played with her 5 toys, and we loved all the beauty and variety we were able to enjoy.
Have enough diesel so you don’t get stuck on the side of the road. Â This is good advice even if you’re not taking a baby on safari. Â We didn’t get stuck on the side of the road, but we did use every bit of diesel we had!
Even the jerry cans we had stocked up on! Â When we got to the furthest northern point of our travels, we drove in to the lodge with the fuel light on, 20 litres of diesel remaining in the jerry can, and the knowledge that we had a 5 hour drive before we would reach the next gas station. Â But we made it!
Get to know the locals. Â In our case, that meant the wildlife. Â We walked up to a herd of zebras…
…and let Abigail sing songs to the bushbucks off our room’s little balcony.
Be the only family booked at the lodge. Â This one recommendation, though entirely out of our control, might get the most “Amen!”s in our home. Â The lodge at Nyika National Park was running a “green season” special because it’s the tourist off-season and it’s rainy which makes it difficult to get around. Â So we knew we’d gotten a good package deal, but we didn’t know until we arrived that we were the ONLY people at the lodge. Â They treated us like royalty, washing our laundry, babysitting Abigail during dinner, and taking a chatterbox 6 month old on safari.
We didn’t mind if she was shrieking in delight at the elands, but a nice older bird-watching couple might not have appreciated her joy the way we did. Â Thankfully we didn’t have to figure that out, and we went gleefully shrieking at the animals all over the park, from the sunrise safari to the nighttime safari.
Enjoy it and go home refreshed. Â We’re busy these days, as we’re starting to describe in our We Love What We Do series, and we’re about to get busier with the summer and short-term teams. Â We needed to get away, just for a bit, but on the last day of vacation we realized that we were ready to go home, to do more of what we love. Â The vacation had fulfilled its purpose, and we had learned how to take a baby on safari.
We Love What We Do – Part 1
(Rachel) I love spending time with the ladies of our church. I like getting together with them for tea, or chatting with them after the service on Sunday, but most of all I like studying the Bible with them. I feel like I’m sounding over-spiritual when I say that, but here’s what I mean: I believe that the Bible is true and that it changes my life as I study it. It’s full of deep, thought-provoking, soul-challenging truth. When I study it with other ladies, we share the experience of God’s Word and His Spirit changing our lives. We learn things together and help one another know how to apply what we’ve learned. It’s a group context, but what happens is deeply personal. The ladies I study the Bible with are the ones who know me, and I know them. I laugh more readily with them, and I cry more readily with them, because I know their hearts.
These past couple months I have had 2 opportunities every week to study the Bible with the ladies from International Bible Fellowship Church. I’ll just talk about one of them today: our regular Tuesday morning Bible study. We’re about to finish a study of the book of Ezra. This study is pretty intense with lessons and homework that involves lots of searching through the Bible to understand what’s happening in the book and what God is doing in the grand scheme of history at the time this book takes place. When the ladies showed up at our house a couple weeks ago, I thought they were going to mutiny!
“Do you think I went to theological school?!â€
“Rachel, this is hard!â€
And you know what? They’re right. It is hard. But by the end of the morning, the comments were a little different.
“This is good for us.â€
“We need to get our mushy brains going!â€
“Vacation is over; we have to study now!â€
I’m so thankful for these ladies and that they’re willing to work hard to understand the rich truths of God’s Word! Please be praying for us that we’ll be faithful to study diligently so that we can present ourselves to God as “workwomen†who do not need to be ashamed, rightly handing the Word of truth (2 Timothy 2:15).
Look Who Found a Mango
Have Diesel, Will Travel
We’re going on vacation tomorrow! After our trip to Zomba last February, we decided that we need to get away for a few days once a year. There’s a lot of Malawi that we haven’t seen yet, so we’re headed north this time: a rain forest, a lakeshore stop, and the best national park in Malawi.
There was only one problem. Diesel. We’re in the middle of a fuel shortage again, and without diesel, we weren’t going anywhere. So this morning, Rachel woke up determined to get fuel.
The search started at 7:15am. No diesel anywhere along the main road through town. By 10:20, we’d gotten a tip that cars were starting to line up outside one of the gas stations on our side of town. Matt was busy studying to teach in Sunday School, so Rachel grabbed Abigail and they took off for the diesel adventure.
This cute little munchkin waited so patiently! We parked our car in line and sat in the shade in front of the BP convenience store, and she played for about an hour and a half, then fell asleep for about an hour.
Finally! The fuel truck pulls in. Unfortunately there were so many cars waiting to get fuel that the fuel truck couldn’t get through the parking lot! That took a bit of sorting out…
And we don’t have a picture of actually getting fuel, because Rachel and Abigail were rescued by our friend Kondi who traded us cars so that Abigail could finish her nap in her own bed. He waiting another hour and a half while the fuel truck unloaded and the cars in front of us filled up. What a friend!
So we’re off on vacation! We have a full tank of diesel and a full 30 liter jerry can as backup. We don’t know if we’ll find fuel up north, but we’re going to try and see how far we can get!
Dedza Pottery
An Infrequent Flyer’s Guide to Using Frequent Flyer Miles – Part 1
(Matt) Over the years, I’ve lost hundreds of thousands of frequent flyer miles. I imagine that if I could have somehow consolidated them, I could fly around the world… but they’re gone. I lost some because I didn’t get around to signing up for a membership card with Northwest or Swiss or some other “random” airline. I lost some because I didn’t have my card when I was at the airport. And most of them were lost because they expired before I did anything with them.
I think I knew all along that frequent flyer programs were designed for, um, frequent flyers. And the last several years, I’ve been more of a “take 1-2 really long flights each year” kind of flyer. Any guesses how many miles we fly from Lilongwe to Nairobi to London to Los Angeles? (See the bottom of this post for the answer. )
So is there some way to do something with all those miles besides let them expire? I’ve determined to figure it out, and share the results with you. Here’s what I’ve learned so far.
Set Your Expectations
Again, the people who benefit most from frequent flyers are ones who fly often. If, like me, you fly far, but not all that often, it’s good to put aside the idea of a free flight to Australia every year. To get an idea of what you can expect, head over to milecalc.com and guesstimate how many miles you’ll fly in the next year.
Here are a few global landmarks to give you an idea of how many miles you’d earn:
- LA > NYC and back:Â 4,924
- LA > London and back:Â 10,912
- LA > Tokyo and back:Â 10,964
- LA > Moscow and back:Â 12,188
- LA > Sao Paolo and back:Â 12,306
- LA > Johannesburg and back:Â 20,770
Now, here’s approximately what you can redeem them for:
- 500-5,000 – Magazines, travel accessories, flowers
- 5,000-30,000 – Upgrade from coach to business class within the US, Caribbean, or Central America
- 15,000-50,000 – Upgrade from coach to business class from USA > Europe, Asia, or Australia
- 50,000-100,000 – Free RT flight within the lower 48
- 70,000-150,000 – Free RT flight to Central America, the Caribbean, or Hawaii
- 100,000-300,000 – Free RT flight from LA > Australia, Europe, Asia, Africa (be sure to drop by!)
In other words, plan on paying for that trip 8-10 times before you get it for free. And you’ll need to fly there 2-3 times in coach before you can get that free upgrade to business class.
While it may be discouraging to see that they don’t go as far as we’d like, it is nice to see that most flyer mile collections can be used for something. The trick is to collect enough of them to use them, which we’ll cover in the next post.
ANSWER FROM ABOVE: Our most recent flight to LA: Lilongwe to Nairobi to London to Los Angeles was 21,166 miles round trip. To fly through South Africa adds 1,500 more. (Compare your latest trip at milecalc.com. Got a longer trip coming up? Commiserate with us in the comments.)














